I posted about my favorite quote the other day, I thought life was unfair until someone said “Life is fair because it is unfair to everyone” and lately I’ve been thinking over some things and saw much more beyond that point. You live and you learn, and you continue to live, so why stress about one thing 24/7. Why let that one thing ruin you or get the best of you if it won’t matter in the future? You’re not the only one having a bad day, someone, somewhere is having a bad day or maybe a worse day than you. Always be thankful because it could be worse, and you should be lucky as hell that it’s not. You never know what tomorrow will bring, it might even be the best day ever.
Another quote that has inspired me says that, If you are depressed you are living in the past, If you are anxious you are living in the future, but if you are at peaec you are living in the present. This is how I see it: We need to let go of the past because we no longer live there. What happened then can’t be changed now, unless you become a genious and create a time machine, but until then we can’t change what happened in the past, but we shouldn’t let it tell us who to be. We can be whoever and/or whatever we want to be. Our past doesn not define us, it just shaped us into the person we want to be. It’s not mean to break us, it’s meant to make us stronger and more confident. Why worry about the future now? You never know when your last day is, so you have to live in the present. Don’t stress about something that won’t matter in the future. Don’t let anything stress you that you won’t remember about. Worry about those things when it becomes the present. Don’t argue with your parents about next summer plans, worry about seeing them today, that they’re healthy and everything is fine. Even if you and your parents don’t get along like me and mine, still cherish that moment because you don’t know what tomorrow brings. No one does.
If you’re sitting there wondering, Why doesn’t he/she like me? Or you’re just judging yourself STOP. I am in that situation myself right now and let me tell you, it sucks ass. It sucks liking someone so much who doesn’t even take a second to think or worry about you. It sucks when you put so much effort into someone who doesn’t even appreciate it. IT SUCKS, I KNOW. But we can’t let it get to us, and I know it’s hard. We need to learn to stop saying sorry because we know they should be the sorry ones not us. Why should we be sorry? For caring so much about someone and worrying about them? Yeah that’s not how it should be. Why do we give infinity chances to someone who won’t even give us one? We also need to stop that. We need to work together so that we can think like this quote: “When you see me, I want you to recognize what you had, what you’ve losr, and realize what you’re never getting back.” That is our main goal. We need to stop being hopeless romantics and let love become the last of our worries, we’re in this together and we are a team, I am your team. I love you all, and I think that’s all the love you need in your lives right now. Next time that someone messages or calls you saying something like I miss you or if you want to hang out, or whatever the case it, defend yourself. Say no, and don’t say sorry. We need to learn to live without these people, so acting like we no longer care or are interested might make them realize it. But by the time they realize we’ll be happier and doing better. Don’t be afraid to say anything, you’re not gonna die for defending yourself, maybe in 10 years this person might not even be relevant or we won’t even rememeber what we argued with them about. You are a good person, don’t think that because this person doesn’t want you you are horrible and worthless because I think you are all wonderful people! I need to stop putting myself down as well, and I will if you guys do as well.
Realize I didn’t write in 2nd person or about myself, I wrote in “WE” form because we are in this fight together, and I will be here every step of the way with you guys. I have your back, and you can always trust me. I love you all, and have a wonderful day. If you’re having a bad day don’t worry so am I! But it will get better I promise. Take Care because I care. <3